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Still Single, Still Glowing: Why Loving Your Solo Era Is a Power Move

 “Being single isn’t the waiting room before life begins. It is real life.” Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about love—not romantic love, but love for the lives we’re already living. Singlehood often gets painted with this brush of lack, like it’s some temporary state we’re all supposed to escape from. And sure, many of us dream of connection, of partnership, of being known deeply. But what if we also held space for the beauty of being single? I’m so glad I stumbled upon a post recently that inspired this reflection. The author, like me, identifies as a lovergirl —someone who adores love, who dreams of intimacy and deep connection. But instead of mourning the absence of partnership, she celebrated what being single had gifted her. And I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. So here’s my love letter to singlehood. I love that I’ve had time to actually meet myself. To figure out what makes me smile in the morning and what keeps me up at night. To feel comfortable in s...
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How to Surprise Your Girlfriend with a Vacation

  Whether you've been dating for 3 months or 3 years, there’s nothing more swoon-worthy than surprising your girlfriend with a getaway. A vacation says: "I know you. I love you. Let’s run away for a little while." But planning the perfect surprise trip without her finding out? That takes some skill—and a whole lot of gay magic. Don’t worry babe, I got you. Here’s your step-by-step guide to surprising your girl with a vacation she’ll never forget:  Step 1: Know Her Vibe Before booking anything, ask yourself: Is she more cozy cabin in the mountains or sunset cocktails on the beach ? Does she need rest or adventure? What’s her schedule like? (Surprises are cute...but not if she has a work meeting she can’t miss.) Pro tip: Drop subtle questions weeks before like: “If we could teleport anywhere right now, where would you go?”  Step 2: Pick a Place That Screams Us It doesn’t have to be Paris (but yes, please). Even a weekend road trip to a queer-friendl...

📚 The Best Lesbian Romance Novels to Fall in Love With (Again and Again) 🌈

  There’s something special about lesbian love stories. The tension. The longing. The way one small moment can mean everything . And in a world that often erases queer love, finding sapphic romance novels that feel real ? It’s like coming home. Whether you're craving a slow burn, a messy breakup-make-up arc, or that soft “she touched my hand and I forgot how to breathe” energy — these books deliver. Here are the best lesbian romance novels to read in 2025 and beyond: 💌 1. One Last Stop by Casey McQuiston Vibe: Time-travel, NYC, pancakes, subway love. Why it’s iconic: August meets Jane on the Q train... and finds out she’s literally stuck in time. It's sapphic, magical, and full of queer joy. 💘 2. Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers Vibe: Queer burnout meets accidental Vegas marriage. Why we love it: Grace marries a woman she barely knows, then slowly unravels her heart. It's messy, healing, and very relatable. 🏳️‍🌈 3. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by T...

🌈 Billie Eilish Came Out, Kinda. And Honestly? We Felt That.

  Billie Eilish came out—and like everything Billie does, she did it her way . In a world that demands loud declarations and clickbait confessions, Billie just… casually confirmed she’s attracted to women in a Variety interview. No rainbow flags, no long notes app post, no performance. Just vibes. And honestly? That kind of soft, subtle coming out is deeply queer in its own way. 🗞️ What Actually Happened? In late 2023, Billie did a cover story for Variety . When asked about her relationship with women, she said: "I’ve never really felt like I could relate to girls very well. I love them so much. I love them as people. I’m attracted to them as people. I’m really attracted to them." Cue the headlines. Cue the internet spiraling. At a later event, someone asked her if she meant to “come out.” Her response? "Wasn’t it obvious?" "I just didn’t believe people didn’t know." 🖤 Why This Matters (Even If It Was Casual) For Billie, it wasn’t som...

10 Famous Lesbian Singers Who Turned Heartbreak into Art 🎤🌈

Being seen—and heard—matters. Music has always been a safe space for queer people to feel , heal , and get free . And when lesbian artists sing their truth? It hits different . Whether you’re crying in bed, dancing alone, or falling in love all over again, these iconic lesbian (and sapphic) singers have put words to our deepest feelings—and built visibility while doing it. Here are 10 famous lesbian singers who’ve inspired millions, one lyric at a time: 🎶 1. Melissa Etheridge One of the OGs—she came out in the 90s and never looked back. Her raspy voice and powerful lyrics made her a rock icon and a queer trailblazer. Listen to: Come to My Window , I’m the Only One 🎤 2. Hayley Kiyoko (aka “Lesbian Jesus”) She made queer love the main plot , not the subplot. Her music videos openly feature WLW love stories, and her fans adore her honesty and softness. Listen to: Girls Like Girls , What I Need 💔 3. Kehlani Openly queer and fiercely fluid, Kehlani brings a raw, emot...

Freelance Jobs for Lesbians (That Actually Pay in 2025) 🌈

  "Freelancing saved me. Not just financially, but emotionally. I didn’t have to shrink myself anymore." If that sounds like you—or the version of you you're becoming—this list is for you. 🌟 Why Freelance? Why Now? Freelancing gives us what traditional jobs often don’t: freedom, flexibility, and the ability to be our full selves. As queer women, especially lesbians, we’re often navigating workspaces that aren’t built with us in mind. Freelancing lets us reclaim our time, creativity, and power. Here are 10 freelance jobs perfect for lesbians in 2025—whether you’re side hustling, soft launching a career shift, or going full-time queer CEO. 💅 ✍️ 1. Content Writing & Blogging What you do: Write articles, blog posts, or web copy for brands, media, and small businesses. Why it fits: You can write from anywhere. You can choose LGBTQ+ topics—or not. Where to start: ProBlogger, Upwork, LinkedIn, or pitch queer publications directly. 🌈 Queer tip: L...

10 Side Hustles Perfect for Queer Women in 2025

Whether you're dreaming of freedom, building a financial safety net, or just craving something that feels yours —side hustles are a powerful way to create space, cash, and confidence. As queer women, our work lives aren’t always linear, traditional, or safe. That’s why side hustles can be more than just money—they can be a form of liberation . Here are 10 side hustles perfect for queer women in 2025—whether you’re introverted, artsy, techy, or somewhere beautifully in between: 1. Digital Art & Design (Think: Etsy, Redbubble, Commissions) If you've got a creative streak, start selling your art on platforms like Etsy or offer custom designs (like queer couple portraits, pronoun pins, or pride merch). People love supporting queer artists—especially ones who speak our language. 2. Freelance Writing & Editing Love words? Start writing for blogs, magazines, or queer-focused platforms. You can even offer editing services for zines, newsletters, or indie authors. Bonus: you ge...