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Still Single, Still Glowing: Why Loving Your Solo Era Is a Power Move

 “Being single isn’t the waiting room before life begins. It is real life.” Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about love—not romantic love, but love for the lives we’re already living. Singlehood often gets painted with this brush of lack, like it’s some temporary state we’re all supposed to escape from. And sure, many of us dream of connection, of partnership, of being known deeply. But what if we also held space for the beauty of being single? I’m so glad I stumbled upon a post recently that inspired this reflection. The author, like me, identifies as a lovergirl —someone who adores love, who dreams of intimacy and deep connection. But instead of mourning the absence of partnership, she celebrated what being single had gifted her. And I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. So here’s my love letter to singlehood. I love that I’ve had time to actually meet myself. To figure out what makes me smile in the morning and what keeps me up at night. To feel comfortable in s...

How to Surprise Your Girlfriend with a Vacation

  Whether you've been dating for 3 months or 3 years, there’s nothing more swoon-worthy than surprising your girlfriend with a getaway. A vacation says: "I know you. I love you. Let’s run away for a little while." But planning the perfect surprise trip without her finding out? That takes some skill—and a whole lot of gay magic. Don’t worry babe, I got you. Here’s your step-by-step guide to surprising your girl with a vacation she’ll never forget:  Step 1: Know Her Vibe Before booking anything, ask yourself: Is she more cozy cabin in the mountains or sunset cocktails on the beach ? Does she need rest or adventure? What’s her schedule like? (Surprises are cute...but not if she has a work meeting she can’t miss.) Pro tip: Drop subtle questions weeks before like: “If we could teleport anywhere right now, where would you go?”  Step 2: Pick a Place That Screams Us It doesn’t have to be Paris (but yes, please). Even a weekend road trip to a queer-friendl...